I remember before I left, my bro and jie fu said that I might become autistic or get depression cos no one will be listening to my nonsense about pan yu wen… However, I have to say they will be disappointed… During the past week, I realize that Kim and I hit off quite well and maybe we have a few things in common so we share with each other all kinds of nonsense, crack all kinds of lame jokes, look at guys together and to the extent of fantasizing… hehe.. So someone shares my pan yu wen nonsense! I even showed her the Xin Guang Bang DVD I brought here.. She’s like totally pissed (the way my family and friends in Singapore) are with the way I describe PYW as “God-like”.. hahaha… She’s those “English-potato” so she totally can’t recognize those Taiwanese idols and stuff.. But her conclusion is: PYW is not gd-looking…But of coz, I don’t talk to her to the extent like what I did to my family members and friends!
When it comes to traveling, we share rather the same perspective.. We will make an effort to make plans beforehand; totally don’t mind making detours occasionally, adventurous etc… Never once did both of us grumble about the distance we walked, tiredness etc.. I believe this point about accommodating others and give & take attitude is extremely important when it comes to traveling, especially when we are like total strangers prior to this trip & are in a foreign country now..I am glad I found a friend in her for I always believe friends are your most important support outside home, putting aside your partner..I won't say I know her inside out but at least I have her as company ... :)
However, by June, she will be traveling with her parents to other parts of Europe and I am still unsure if my other friend is keen on traveling because she seems weird… I wouldn’t want to make any judgment about anyone yet as it’s only 7 days in Sweden and we still have 5 more months to go. ☺ But, she seems really quiet, doesn’t really make conversations and is definitely a lone-ranger… Sigh… Alright, she’s staying with me cos she feel it’s out of her budget to stay alone… Though I might appear impatient and particular about stuffs at time, people who know me really well or have traveled with me before will know that I am very easy-going and accommodating when out, I swear! No particular likes and preferences be it food, bed etc… As she arrived 2 days later than I do, I actually cleaned up the whole room by myself during the first day… Nevertheless, I chose the bed I wanted first cos I need to sleep right… When she arrived, I told her if she want, we can always switch and I even give her the shelf and little wardrobe… When it came to sharing the bigger wardrobe, she din’t want the hanging space as she said she prefer to fold her clothes rather than hang them… I don’t have much clothes either or I should say much luggage so I gave her the only compartment with the baskets to put clothes… But guess what? It’s been like 5 days since she arrived and she did not unpack her luggage!! She just took clothes and food out and places them on the table… She doesn’t really make conversation with me either and is usually me who take the initiative to break the silence… I don’t mind cos everyone knows I am talkative and can’t stand silence…
In addition, when Kim & I asked her to join us for our visits to the attractions or breakfast, she doesn’t seem keen at all.. I understand that partly could be due to budget since she ain’t like us, getting sponsors… But the money I have ain’t a lot too! For example, when we want to visit the Drottingham Palace where the royalties of Sweden live, I asked her at least 4 times if she wanna join us but she rejected me in a nice way each time..You may think that I am too persistent and refuse to give up despite 4 failed attempts but I am really doing that in good will.. The first time when I asked was because I thought all of us are from the same school and should travel around together as often as possible right… she did not give me a reply immediately so I asked the 2nd time.. She say she’s not going but would like to get to the tourist office.. So our plan was to bring her to the tourist office, then head to City Hall and finally Drottingham Palace… Upon reaching the tourist office, she say she decide not to go in and would like to follow us to the City Hall… Because of the delay, we actually missed the guided tour at the City Hall but she doesn’t seem a bit apologetic about it.. The weather was very windy and it was exceptionally cold that morning but she just took her own sweet time, strolling behind us… I know everyone has different pace of walking but I must emphasize: IT”S COLD so you should really speed up.. Plus, both of us could have taken the subway but because she doesn’t have the pass like we do & don’t wanna waste the fare that’s why we decided to walk…
Back to my 3rd attempt, it was on the way to City Hall.. I asked if she wanna follow us to the palace since she’s already with us at the CH… She say she dun tink so and I really give up in asking her already… Then from the CH back to the tourist office or the dorm, she told us she can’t recognize the way but she will try to figure out… At this moment, my 4th attempt surfaced! I asked her to join us since Drottingham Palace is like a must-visit attraction in Sweden and she will visit it sooner or later so why not join us? At least we can keep a lookout for each other… Plus the weather is cold and looks like it might snow anytime and she was like freezing already so if she gets lost, I don’t know what will happen… Now, people close to me will think, since when did I become so nice? I may appear impatient and 38 outside but I know my priorities and weigh the consequences…I know how to be caring!… She’s totally alien to the surroundings here and if she really gets lost, I can’t imagine what will happen… No joking or not me being boastful, I am serious! If I ever take photos with her, I will post it then you guys be the judge as to whether I jus mentioned makes sense…
Anyway, after my 4th failed attempt to get her to join us, I gave up and we went separate ways…. So, does anyone encourage me to travel with her after reading this post? She doesn’t really want to socialize with people and this totally defeats the purpose of exchange since you are here to meet new friends, learn new culture and definitely to step out of your comfort zone (family, friends) and learn to be independent… Maybe she’s really learning to be independent so she does not want to rely on the both of us at all but I just feel the way she does it is weird… Sweden is relatively safe to move around alone but still, it’s better to always have company right…
By posting this, I am really just sharing my personal views and thoughts… Don’t worry people, I am not complaining… I don’t mind being in the same room also because she does her stuff and I do mine… Most importantly, I’ve been enjoying every single day that I an here so far and believe this will continue till the day I see you guys at the airport! But frankly speaking, I welcome you guys to join me in Europe in June. So save up la hor… A 2-way air-tic to Sweden is only $1900/-! Hahaha…